What do you really want? Do you want that donut or that summer body? Do you want to party your youth away or do you want to begin your life? These are easy questions. You already know what you want. Don’t deny it. If you deny your wants, then you may as well be denying yourself true happiness.
I know I’m sending mixes signals here, so let me clear up. Not everyone is going to know what they want to do with their life when they are 20. Hell, I know people in the 30s that still don’t know their purpose. I am sure there even older folks that don’t know why they are alive, and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. Your purpose will become clear when it is time.
Enjoy life in the meantime. Do what you want, but at the same time, keep in mind the things that are important to you. If you really want that summer body, then you may need to make some sacrifices regarding desserts. It’s all about how bad you want it.